You may be compelled to ask me why I have chosen to blog here instead of over at www.findingchristi.wordpress.com. The answer is simple. I needed a fresh place, that isn’t cluttered up to start blogging again.
And I don’t feel like I am the same person I was when I started that other blog 3+ years ago.
Don’t get me wrong I loved that blog. For a long time I found what I needed for myself over there. Then things got to be very stagnant over there. Instead of having my life set on shuffle, I was stuck in a perpetual repeat. Hence why I stopped blogging.
I was in the depths of some pretty serious depression and self loathing. Self doubt is a bitch, in case you did not know.
I had people telling me all the time about how they enjoyed my blog. That they even thought I was a good (maybe even great) eek, writer. Surely these people couldn’t be talking about me right? 30 something, stay at home mom, who never finishes anything, the girl who made a 10 (out of 100 possible points) and an essays that I wrote in high school. That right there tells me there is no possible way anyone could ever insinuate that I, of all people, am a good writer or that someone is enjoying what I have to say.
But here’s the crazy thing. When I first started Finding Christi, it was for me. An outlet of my feelings and emotions. A place to explore the things I thought that I had lost. In the process of realizing that I never lost anything, that I had only lost my focus and objective, I lost the whole reason in starting that blog. It became more important what I wrote about and in turn what others thought about me. Completely contradictory to the reason I started it. So, it had to go. And go it has gone. Gone it is. It is no longer…ok I’m done with that!
So you may ask: Christi where are you today?
I am so glad you asked and I will be more than happy to catch you up.
When I weighed in on Monday my weight was 301.8 lbs. So that my friends is my official (re)start weight. I had so many hopes that that number would be significantly less by now. I also had a lot of excuses. What I didn’t have was commitment.
My blood sugar is a horrible, horrible 496 after 25 minutes of exercise (we can talk about that later) and a small(ish) lunch. Apparently that lunch wasn’t nearly small enough.
The hubby and I both joined Planet Fitness. I was scared to death about going by myself. But I got up this morning and went. I talked myself into going by promising if I finished my work out (goal today was 1 mile on treadmill), I can tan. Before you get all preachy about tanning, I know all of the risk associated with it. If I am sensible and responsible with my tanning I can have a healthy glow without over doing it and increasing my risk. Besides that, if I’m gonna possibly have lose and saggy skin, it can be tanned, lose and saggy skin.
My goal for today was a simple one. One mile on the treadmill at a moderate pace, gotta get that heart rate up! After 20 minutes I felt as if I might die. I didn’t realize how badly out of shape I am. Just 2-3 years ago I could have gone so much longer. Needless to say I was extremely upset. I texted my buddy L (I’ll have to ask if I can use her full name), and she kind of put it into perspective for me.
At least I went to the gym.
At least I tried.
Next time will be better.
The time after next will be even better.
So, just as before I hope to use this blog as a place to help hold myself accountable. I’ve got my “workout buddy” in place, even if she is all the way over in South Carolina. She is willing to check in on me and encourage me and I hope it never comes to this, but soon or later it will, she is even willing to open a can of whoop ass on me. I just hope she’ll go for one of those small-sized cans and not the ginormous energy drink sized ones.